"I love the doctrine of marriage and eternal families. But I think our church puts an almost unhealthy emphasis on marriage, especially for young girls.
"Somewhere along the line I began to equate personal worth (my own and that of others) with marriage or potential for marriage. Not everyone will find the right person for them in this lifetime, and that doesn't make them any less special or faithful. Personally, I would rather stay single than marry someone who was not right for me."